The Language of Love

Have you ever find it challenging expressing yourself or feel upset when you love ones, friends or even colleagues don't get the picture of what you want them to understand?

I do. Sometime I almost feel like giving up after trying to get Dami understand my point. It seems to me that no matter how much I tried to express my feelings, he doesnt seems to be able to get my point.

We had great time talking to each other about everyday happening about his work as well as mine & also our friends. But when it comes to serious conversation such as how I feel about his certain behaviours, he just seems "shut-off" or misinterpret.

I "complained" to Momo once after a tearful conversation that I can't "communicate" w my hubby, she lend me this book. She took up 1 year of basic counselling course thru her church, I thought she probably know how to tackle the situation.

I'm half way thru the book. It's really quite interesting. I've also tried alittle on the technic suggested. Seems to work quite well. I hope when I finish the book, I can summarise & share it with Dami (he's not the sort who read book beside car magazines, haha). Hopefully that will help him better understand the importance of in-depth communication.